Positive Anchors Relationship Advice
An anchor in a relationship is something that triggers a past memory, positive or negative. You don’t here very much relationship advice about this topic, so here’s an example: If your hand gets squeezed whenever your partner says something loving, a simple squeezing of your hand in the future can bring back those positive thoughts and feelings. Now if your hand gets slapped, even in a non-violent way, when you had an argument with your partner; having your hand slapped in the future can bring back those negative thoughts and feelings.
No relationship is perfect, they have all had their ups and downs, good times and bad times, to some degree or another. You have a chance to create both positive and negative anchors in your life. Most people create these in their sub-conscience; but if you want to have control of them instead of them controlling you, then you need to be aware of them. I doubt anyone would disagree with having positive anchors, but I’m sure we all have negative ones that we would like to get rid of.
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