Count Your Blessings – Relationship Advice
Every relationship has its challenges, peaks, valleys, successes, problems and issues that can have either a positive or negative impact on the quality of the relationship.
There is a psychological concept that states, “you get more of what you focus on.” In other words what you pay conscious attention to you tend to increase in your life or relationship. Focus on lack, what is missing, and you will get more lack. Focus on what is working and positive and you get more of that as well.
In a recent article for my popular newsletter Life Balance, called Microscope or Telescope, I shared with my readers how people in a new love or relationship tend to look at the relationship through a telescope. They don’t see many of the little aggravations, idiosyncrasies or behaviors of their partner that might otherwise upset or cause them stress. In a relationship that is failing the parties tend to look at the relationship through a microscope, micro-managing every little word, behavior, though and issue.
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